Here's an interesting 2010 interview with Ram Dass on the process of letting go: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4LxB-4_MGbc   "Your soul witnesses your feelings, your desires, your fearlessness. Stay  in the witness, not identifying with the desires or attitudes or those things. You can sit by and watch the show. Watch the show of your incarnation and just sit back from your ego and your other thoughts. I like to sit back with my guru who is like a soul-friend. And I would suggest you have a soul friend, one that is going to be loving and passionate and peaceful and wise." instead of desire the car, maybe the car will go and instead of the car maybe desire a guru or a good spiritual friend, someone... Read More